Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label happiness. Show all posts

Friday, January 9, 2009

A Life of Joy

by Steve Goodier

Mother Teresa teaches us an important lesson about happiness. She was one of those people who emanated joy. Born in 1910 in Skopje, Macedonia, she felt called as a teenager to move to Calcutta, India. Some months later she saw a sight that completely revolutionized her life.

Shortly after moving to Calcutta she spotted a homeless, dying woman lying in the gutter, being eaten by rats. After seeing that, compassion compelled her to beg an abandoned Hindu temple from the government and convert it into a crude, make-shift hospital for the dying. "Nobody should die alone" she would later say. Mother Teresa went on to establish homes for the destitute dying in numerous cities. But in spite of devoting her life to people in such dire straits, she radiated joy and happiness.

This incredible woman was once interviewed by Malcolm Muggeridge from the BBC News. He asked her an unusual question: "Mother Teresa, the thing I noticed about you and the hundreds of sisters who now form your team is that you all look so happy. Is that a put-on?"

Here was a woman who had none of the things we like to think of as bringing happiness: a home, a family, prosperity. Rather, she lived in near-poverty and spent her time wiping dirt and various body fluids from half-dead cancer and leprosy victims – and appeared to be blissfully happy. She replied, "Oh no, not at all. Nothing makes you happier than when you really reach out in mercy to someone who is badly hurt."

She would agree that happiness does not come from acquiring, but is a by-product of giving: time, money, love. Do you want a life of joy? Start by giving.

Thursday, August 7, 2008

Tips for Spicing Up Your Love Life

Zen Habits provides great advice and healthy suggestions for living a more balanced life. While this list was created as a tip for those who want to create more passion and energy in their marriage (written by Corey of The Simple Marriage Project), I feel it is necessary to pass along these suggestions to anyone looking to spice things up in their current relationship:
  • Grow Spiritually
  • Learn to Live Complaint-Free
  • Live Passionately

  • Live Simply
  • Have Sex
  • Live in Community
For details on what exactly these suggestions mean and how to incorporate them into your daily rituals, head on over to Zen Habits...and tell them I sent you!

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Parenting Tips

Parenting Press has been providing Parenting Tips of the Week each week for years and I've only just discovered them. Some of my favorites:
I'll be including these in upcoming posts to continue the conversation and to hear what readers think. You're welcome to post comments here about the above tips.